Don't Call it "Play"
I legit cringe every time I hear that question, and as a hobby costumer (more on that later), I hear the question, nay, judgement, a lot. My humble beginnings as a child in love with playing dress up are fairly standard, but my journey to sleep-deprived costume fairy was fraught with side-eyes and etymology shade. If you’re even a little curious about the cackling voice you hear during our Oddity Podigy episodes, grab an over-sized mug of Earl Grey and I’ll rant a bit about why I’m here--both on this blog and in my hobby.
Back when this Oddity Prodigy Productions venture was merely a fantasy, I was toying with the idea of fiction writing. Science fiction and fantasy have always been my jam, and I’d dabbled in the NaNoWriMo festivities once or twice. Oh, and, I figured I should try to legitimize that English degree that I keep secret and safe on my studio wall...as cartoon dollar bills fly out of my wallet and off to their home at the student loan office. Anyway, I never aimed for Octavia E. Butler status, hell, I’ve never even attended a writer’s workshop. I just wanted to see what it was like to write a story from start to finish. And then, life distracted me. Those who have read the OPP story know that it took time and a few well-placed gut punches to motivate our fellowship into gear. For my part, I stepped away from writing almost entirely, only making notes on story ideas when the mood struck. I filled that headspace and my basement with costumes.
Back in the dark ages--middle school, I started to get really picky about what my Halloween costumes were. I gave my seamstress (Thanks, Mom) explicit instructions on how my pieces needed to look, and at some point, she told me to fuck off and make my own. By the time I reached my mid-twenties, a friend remarked, “You have a costume for everything!” I don’t remember how true that statement was at the time, but soon after, I discovered costume-friendly events outside of October, that didn’t involve keg stands. Only scratching the surface of playing dress-up as an unpaid adult, my gateway activity was attending renaissance faires as a “playtron”--a patron of a faire who dresses in pseudo-historical garb. That opened up a whole new world of comic cons, steampunk-pirate-fairy fests, and bonafide costume conventions. I even did a stint as a historical reenactor while working for a museum. At some point, I started a blog about my costume trials and tribulations, which soothed my writing itch. Nearly two decades later, I am considered a “cosplayer” by pop culture standards, and I can’t express in words just how much that title irks me.
As a hobbyist, I am an enthusiastic maker and appreciator. I love the ways in which the items we wear tell a story, from overall mood down to small details that give us a whiff of days gone by. I have a bookgasm anytime an author can accurately describe the rustle of silk taffeta along garden pavestones or the protective comfort of stays (the precursor to corsets) when a lady is gearing up for a long day of turning away suitors. My costuming preferences vary with the events that I attend, but I lean on historical options whenever possible. The fun part for me is creating, so the other aspects of the hobby--being in character, doing photoshoots, entering contests--tend to cause an unexpected level of stress. The idea of “playing” in my 100 hour build-time costume, outside of a courtly dance or a selfie with some kiddos, is an easy way to get me back into leggings and t-shirts. I prefer to wear my most elaborate gowns in peace with a turkey leg in my hand and sea shanty in my heart. Being called a cosplayer feels like I’m being put in a bucket with the prop-wielding Deadpools, and I just can’t accept it. I believe in the power that words have over us...and my pinky is forever in the upright and locked position. That said, my very favorite aspect of costume design is combining fandoms to break fanboy brains, and I will tell tall tales of my Kobayashi Maru to all of the younglings just to get a reaction.
And since it is currently Spooky season, I’ll go ahead and briefly touch on my feelings about interactions with the rest of the world while I’m in costume. I hate them. While the question “What are you supposed to be” is, in theory, innocent and honest, the tone, especially at this time of year, can be combative--costume contest competitors at work, grouchy candy-givers, drunks on a bar crawl, confused mundanes at the gas station--everyone is awful. If you expect me to explain my Art Nouveau Medusa as you furrow your brow in judgement, you uncultured swine, you have another thing coming, and I have a Mucha themed absinthe tasting to attend. While I acknowledge that my ensembles can be difficult to decipher as compared to your Sexy Daddy Shark from the Halloween store, a simple, “Tell me about your costume” will suffice, Chad.